What is Addiction?
Drug or alcohol addiction refers to the continued use
of a mind-altering substance despite adverse physical, mental, and spiritual consequences.
The word also implies the familial, social, or work-related repercussions of
drug abuse. An addict or alcoholic can be physically or psychologically (mentally)
addicted, and often both conditions are present. Addiction also encompasses
other self-destructive or compulsive behaviors, such as eating disorders, compulsive
gambling, pornography addiction, and sex addiction.
Signs and Signals
Anyone should
know the signs and signals that addiction may be present. These can range from
subtle shifts in attitude or appearance, to severe emotional or life-threatening
trauma. The following are some of the signs to look for:
§ Bloodshot eyes
§ Glassy or dull eyes
§ Chronic sinus congestion
§ Deterioration in personal appearance
§ Sever weight loss (or weight gain in some
cases)
§ Missing from school or work
§ Decline in job performance; dismissal
§ Loss of interest in hobbies, work, or life
§ Changes in sleep habits
§ Shifts in eating patterns; lack of appetite
§ Traffic violations; DUI
§ Stealing; criminal activity
§ Disruption in interpersonal or familial
relations
§
Using sex
to obtain drugs or money
§
Erratic
behavior; mood swings
§
Aggressive
outbursts
§ Self-destructive behavior
§ Violence towards others
Why Addiction?
A person can be introduced to a highly addictive
substance, like heroin, take it once and get hooked. They could have started
drinking, which led to smoking pot, which led to cocaine, which in turn led to
meth and an addiction. In this day and age of rampant prescription drug abuse,
the cycle of addiction can start in childhood, where parents, teachers or
counselors recommend the child for psychiatric evaluation. The child is in turn
prescribed amphetamine-like compounds, and can rapidly or gradually develop dependency
or addiction. This then degenerates into “self-medication” and the cycle of
addiction takes over the young person’s life. In another unwitting scenario, a
person is prescribed a painkiller for an injury or illness, and an addiction
ensues. Most commonly, a person turns to drugs or alcohol to escape life
problems or trauma. When this devolves into addiction, the drug use becomes the problem
(while the original problems only get worse). Commonly, the primary
objective of an alcoholic is to stay drunk. For the addict, the aspirations he
or she once had in life are replaced by one goal: to obtain drugs and get to
the next hit or fix. What then should be the first step in tackling alcoholism
or addiction?
Talk About It
If you
suspect a friend or loved one is abusing drugs or alcohol, the best thing to do
is take the person aside and ask about it directly. “Denial” is a common trait
of the addict, so they may initially lie or dodge the question. The addict or
alcoholic is caught in the middle of a continuous push-pull; the urge to
continue using commonly intertwined with deep feelings of guilt. You’ll
have to convey to the person that they can trust you and you will not judge
them. Once you have established some degree of rapport, try to get some
questions answered. This is more for them than it is for you, to get them to
look objectively at their situation. You wouldn’t want to interrogate them with
an onslaught of questioning, but some of the things discussed could be:
§ What
substance (or substances) is the person using?
§ How
long has this been going on? Months? Years?
§ Do
they have a physical or mental addiction (or both)?
§ How
did the person get started using drugs or alcohol?
§ What
problem or problems was the person seeking to escape from when they started
using?
§ Are
they associated with drug users who encourage their habit?
§ How
are they financing their habit?
§ What
are some of the ramifications of their drug use – on themselves, their health,
family, friends, school, work, life in general?
If talking
about it isn’t getting anywhere, you may need to enlist the help of other
trusted family, friends, a pastor, or a counselor. An organized intervention
may be in order, to help the person open their eyes as to what they are doing
to themselves and others. Whatever angle you use, keep in mind that the addict
is battling some extremely heavy forces, some of which are coming from inside
him or her.
The Next Step
After successfully opening up the subject, you and
the addict or alcoholic should start discussing forms of rehabilitation. In psychiatric
or “traditional” circles, addiction is routinely described as a hereditary,
genetic, or incurable disease. Researchers continue to search for the “addiction
gene” as they develop new pharmaceuticals in an effort to offset the
cravings associated with drugs or alcohol. The other end of the spectrum is the holistic
approach, which tends to utilize drug-free detoxification techniques,
nutritional regimens (to deal with vitamin and mineral deficiencies), combined with
mental or spiritual counseling.
Addiction is
one of the most heartbreaking subjects in the panorama of mankind, but it
doesn’t have to be an “incurable disease.” You may get discouraged, but if you keep at
it, you can often make a significant breakthrough. So, don’t give up!

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